#1 One thing I have learnt and I need you to know is that it’s okay to mess up.You’re only human, and it’s completely normal to make mistakes. You’re only human , and you’re not perfect. Perfection is a myth. When you’re at that point in your life when everything around you comes crashing down and you feel like this is how it will all end, and there’s no way to make it better I need you to know that it’s okay. When you’re confused and your vision is blurry, when you can’t seem to figure out what’s wrong and what’s right I want you to know that it’s okay, that you’re a mere human and you don’t have to make everything right. There is a way the universe has planned things for you and everything will fall into place eventually, so when you’re crying over how you’re everything is falling apart and how your life has become a puzzle impossible to solve, just know that nothing is impossible, that being messed up is human nature, that it’s okay to not have it all figured out. This is not a fancy motivational write up, but this is something that I have learnt and I need you to know; it’s okay, don’t worry.
People are gonna come and people are gonna go. They will take pieces of you along but they will also leave bits of themselves. It’s gonna be hard to fill the voids the created. Like missing pieces of a jigsaw puzzle.And no matter how beautiful the new flowers that bloom are they’ll never be same as the ones which fell last fall and you’re going to feel like your organs are missing. Every time you pass that store they really liked your stomach will drop, you will almost be able to hear their voice in your ears saying how they love the store so much. Every time you listen to that song by their favorite artist you’ll be able to picture them dancing to it. Every time you go back to your old Facebook albums and look at the pictures and relive those moments you wish were never taken away from you their laugh will ring in your ears and you remember exactly what the moment was, every single detail. And when you go back to that cafe you called your “Hang out spot” you’ll be left with two empty seats beside you staring at your own reflection through the glass top table and you’ll sigh and wish things never changed. But change is inevitable. And so is losing people. So when you’re back in that park on the same park bench from years ago, I don’t want you to sob over what you lost, instead, look around the park, picture exactly how you all used to play hide and seek when you were 7 and how you used to lose track of time talking when you were 13 and smile. For those moments are never coming back but trust me there are way better ones to come.
#3 There will always be people who will want to bring you down, people who won’t like you even when you try your hardest, people who will make you feel like you’re not enough. Too skinny, too fat. Too dark, too light. Too short, too tall. Too sweet, too rude. Too slutty, too covered up. Too modern, too backwards. Too conservative, too liberal. Too this, too that, but never perfect. But love what I want you to know is that it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter what they think. Because baby perfection is a myth, and you are way more than that one word. You’re the ocean, beautiful as all the shades of blue it holds yet strong enough to destroy anything that may bother you. You’re the moon, silently there at night, giving someone the light of hope in the darkness. You’re the rainforest, rebuilding yourself every time someone burns you down. You’re the butterfly, unable to see how beautiful your wings are. You are more, you are wonderful. You are more, and don’t let people dull your brightness
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